Title: Why Men Don't Say No: Sexual Compliance and Gender Socialization in Heterosexual Men
by Devinder Khera
Supervisor: Dr. Cory Pedersen
Abstract:
Given that the
prevailing literature largely neglects the unwanted sexual activity experiences
of men, this study examined both prevalence and predictors of men’s compliance
with unwanted, but consensual, sexual activity. Specifically, we examined
whether traditional gender-role endorsement, belief in male sexuality
stereotypes, and age predict moderate sexual compliance among heterosexual men.
Participants completed a brief demographic questionnaire and measures of
gender-role beliefs and male sexuality stereotypes followed by a modified
measure investigating reasons for being sexually compliant in sexual
encounters. Results provide evidence for predicting sexual compliance in
heterosexual men via endorsement of traditional gender-role beliefs and advocacy
of male sexuality stereotypes for reasons relating to intoxication,
inexperience, peer pressure, popularity, and sex-role concerns. The reported
incidence rate of at least moderate (e.g., kissing) sexual compliance in
heterosexual men was 61.3% over the past 12 months. These
results have practical implications for dispelling two prevailing gendered
stereotypes: First, that heterosexual men have an insatiable sexual appetite,
and second, that women play a passive role in sexual initiation and activity.
Dispelling these stereotypes allows men to more readily reject unwanted sexual
activity, strengthens the sexual agency of women, and alleviates male concerns
regarding sexuality and gender-roles.